How to indentify a true friend

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By dreamer32

To me, this is a subject that is very dear to me,which is true friendship! Every person desires to have a true friend in their life! Throughout society, true friends are hard to find! Sometimes, most people have friends, but most of them  are indentified as acquantances! Every person can say that someone is their friends! How many people can say that they have a true friend!? Some people can answer this question as "yes"! Other people are not very sure about this question!  For those who are not sure about this question, here are some pointers that can allow you to indentify a true friend.

I. A true friend is excited about that you every day!

  This justifes that a true friend never becomes tired of seeing you! That person smilies and become very excited to see you! They never show signs that they are tired of you! That person is excited when you speak about your problems in life because he or she will feel your pain! That person cannot wait see your presence! A true friend is very passionate about you, not tired of you!A true friend repects you enough to give space and breathing room!  A true friend knows that he or she is not going to be with you 24/7, but every time a true friend thinks about you, he or she begins to get excited and happy! A person who is tired of you ! In my opinion, something is wrong with that picture!

II. A true friend is passionate giver

   A true friend is a person who loves to give to you out of passion, not out of sacrifice! Sacrifice never feels good! However,That person always loves to give because he or she truely lives you! When that person gives, he or she will find you as their passion! Too, one should also find that true friend as their passion! A true friend feels so good when he or she gives to you! A true friend doesn't have the payback mentality while giving to you! A true friend truly understand a lending and payback mentality will destroy a friendship! When one is passionate about something or a person, he or she willl never get tired of it!

III. A true friend shows action that he or she truly cares

  A true friend will show you that he or she cares about you! That person will not only speak by words, but their actions will speak louder than words! A true friend cares about he or she is shows concern!  A true friend will call you to see how is every thing! A true friend is not stuck-up in himself or herself! A true friend will always be there for you when nobody else shows in your toughest time!

IV.  A true friend will never tell your secrets

     This is a common one that a lot of people know! A true friend will never tell gossip to other people by what you have told him or her! That person will always keep it to himself or herself! That true friend will make sure it's between you and him or her! A true friend will never abuse your inner-circle! A true friend can always be trusted!  That person always respect you! One can always go deep with a true friend! This will grow into a stronger bond and connection with that person.

V.  A true friend will never allow the gossip of people destroy the relationship

     Before getting into this, so many people has let gossip of other folks to destroy their relationship with a person! A lot of times, the gossip and rumors don't even be true!

    A true friend will never allow other people to talk about you in their presence! That person will stick up for you in a split second! That person become mad at them! That's a true friend when he or she does such a thing! That person will tell that individual or more " Hey, talk about anything else, don't sit here and talk about my best friend!" That will kill a lot of stuff! 

 

 To end on this note, always remember that a true friendship is to last a life time, not a short time!   

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