The importance of finding a person who can relate, and feel what you are going through part II

The importance of finding someone who can truely feel and relate to a person is very important! As for speaking in part one, I spoke that trust is one of the keys to opening up to another person when it comes to relating, or having a heart to feel what they are going through. I want to speak more about trust, and about so called people who claim that they can feel you in the second part! Few people tell their story out in the open, which they have reached a that level to be comfortable to open up so that someone will discover their story and relate to it! There are other people who are not comfortable to be on that certain level because they have know if one can be trusted, which is their personality. Most people refuse to respect the fact that others are not comfortable to put their story out in the open, which causes them to be mad and offended! However, so many people advise a person to open up what they have been through currently or previously without putting trust in the picture!This statement makes the average person mad and offended, but it's true!

Therefore, It's important that one should be careful whom they spill their guts out towards some people! This reason is because most folks will not be open-minded, or cannot truely feel you by which they have something destructive to say! Certain people who don't truely feel you; They will usually speak, " Well that's sounds depressing! shame on you! You are so weak! I don't want to hear about your situation!! " Why do most people say these things because they cannot relate, or don't truely feel what one is going through! This is one of the main reason why one should get a person that he or she can trust! Especially when it comes to a person who can relate; first comes the foundation of trust, and then it builds a bridge for that person to open up! Trust builds bridges, the abuse of trust destroys bridges!

Having spoken earlier in the first part about most people who say that they can feel you, I find that most of them can be very tricky! Most of them claim that they feel you, but their actions reveal another thing! Most of them will say something like this, " You have been hurt too much by life, you need to stop feeling angry because if you don't; you will be miserable and angry at life!" Even though they think that it probably worked for them, but they don't think in their minds for a minute that it probably won't work for the next person! Not realizing that every person's mind reponds differently when it comes to trials! These types of people don't think of the fact of what that person truely needs when they are feel knocked out by intense trials! Most of them don't take the time to know the difference! They don't know that they have lost that person's trust!