The importance of finding a person who is going through the same thing as you in the present moment

Most of us have been through a lot of things in life. Sometimes, it becomes difficult to find a person who can relate to us in what we go through!. With most of us, we have certain feelings that we are alone in what we go through in life during the present moment. Sometimes, one has to trust a person before we open up to them, which that's understandable.it might be hard and diffucult! This is because one speaks in their mind-" who can I trust with what I am going through?" To find these type of people, ask yourself these questions while searching! Do you feel right and comfortable around that person?Does this person show signs of compassion? Does this person go around and tell other people's business?! You probably ask- how can I test the type of person who goes and tell their business in order to trust him or her!? The answer is start a normal conversation with that person, and to tell that person one thing about yourself that is going to catch their attention; don't allow it to be something deep about yourself! This justifies that person will probably tell others about what was told to him or her! I say this because this can tell how far you can trust that person with things about yourself! If that person doesn't tell your bussiness; possiblities are that he or she can probably be trusted! If this happens, there a possiblity of a friendship happening, or just having compassion for each other for that present moment. When two people can come together who going through similiar present circumstances, it gives them inner-strength to know that they are not alone. People who are going through the same thing as another person in the present moment, they don't tend to give harsh remarks to him or her!Their compassion and understanding is what lifts and gives strength to proceed on with life. Some people don't believe it doesn't solve nothing, but it does! It is why it's important to find a person who can relate in what you are going through! Mostly, a person who can going through the same or smiliar thing right now just as you are right now! This is best person to find because he or she will truely understand where you are coming from. They will probably cry, weep, and feel where you are coming from!

Contrary from the importance of finding a person who can relate to them, it is a danger to find a person who doesn't show understanding and don't truely know how you feel!. Be very careful! You probably is wondering why would I say such a crazy thing! This is because most people claim that they have an understanding what one is going through,but they don't ! A person who says that he or she knows how one feels, but their words reveal something else. What do I mean by this?! This person will probably say," I feel and understand you,but what you are telling me is depressing! You need get over it wimp! I feel and understand you, but you need to stop feeling unexcited about life!" Even though that person thinks that it might be right and true statements in their minds, but it wouldn't be the right time to say to a person who is going through present intense circumstances! I say this because one who is going through present intense circumstances will think towards that person such thoughts as, " I cannot trust that person! That person damaged my trust when I wanted to get it off my chest! That person don't know what I am truly going through! That person don't have sense of putting himself or herself in my shoes! I cannot find nobody who understand and truely relate what I am going through!" It caues one to lose their trust towards that person! It also causes one's emotions and spirit not to be built up. Too, it causes one to feel a lack of excitement towards life!